Monday, August 10, 2009

NUDE


Spiritual Sex
A guide to the infinite possibilities of spiritual sexuality, including information about Tantric sex and Taoist sexual practices.
Tantra Sex – A Tantric Sex Primer
A basic introduction to Tantra sexual practice and what Tantric sex has come to mean in the west. Answers questions what is Tantra? Who is Tantra good for? With links to more resources, information, tips, and techniques on Tantra sex.
Exploring Tantra – Four Common Obstacles to Exploring Tantra Sexual Practice
Discusses four common obstacles to exploring Tantric sexual practice.
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How to Explore Sexual Touch – Increasing Sexual Intimacy Through Touch
A step by step guide to exploring sexual touch with your partner. Ideas on how to increase intimacy through sexual touch, and tips on ways to touch that will deepen your knowledge of your partner’s body and sexual response.
Interview with Joy Wilson, owner of Book22.com
An interview with Joy Wilson who started Book22.com, a sex toy website for married Christians.

SEXY

Exploring Tantra – Four Common Obstacles to Exploring Tantra Sexual Practice
Discusses four common obstacles to exploring Tantric sexual practice.
See more links below...
Sponsored Links

Are you really Happy?Questioning the way you live? 40 Secrets to true Happiness - free thewhiterabbitreports.com/secrets
How to Explore Sexual Touch – Increasing Sexual Intimacy Through Touch
A step by step guide to exploring sexual touch with your partner. Ideas on how to increase intimacy through sexual touch, and tips on ways to touch that will deepen your knowledge of your partner’s body and sexual response.
Interview with Joy Wilson, owner of Book22.com
An interview with Joy Wilson who started Book22.com, a sex toy website for married Christians.
Secret Garden Publishing
Founded by Tantra author and teacher Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Secret Garden published wonderful books and educational videos on increasing sexual intimacy through Tantric practices. Highly recommended.

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwws

Dirty talk
Talking dirty has turned people on for millennia and will continue to do so because it has something other sex play doesn’t: words. Because our brains are our largest sexual apparatus, we respond to the spoken word automatically -- especially when someone says our name. The spoken word evokes emotions, sensations and blood flow to various regions, depending on the topic.

This works very much in your favor when it comes to talking dirty to your lover because women are especially susceptible to what goes in their ears (and I don’t mean cotton buds or ear candles). Talking dirty is, however, an art form and when done badly can result in fits of giggles (which, lets face it, ain't so bad but isn't quite the goal here). Don’t let this deter you.

BED LOVE

Play a game
Get a pack of cards and play strip poker for better sex. It may seem like something you would have done when you were in high school (given the opportunity), but adult strip poker is a good way to get naked. Once you are both naked (or nearly naked), you can start on the really fun part: A loss means the other person gets to choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Time limits like one minute on said action means that it is a prolonged game of seduction, which by the end will have you both clamoring to be both the winner and the loser. There are many other games you can play "strip" to, as long as there is regular winner and loser to reward and punish respectively. The great part about these games is that you can both ask the other person to do something in a certain way that you may not necessarily have ever done before. It can get rather filthy, and definitely lead to better sex in the end.

LOVE + SEX

Tell her your fantasies
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner, which is of great importance, as well, it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Yes, you may be surprised by what comes out of her mouth, but this works both ways. Keep it light at first and don’t throw her in the deep end with fantasies about people you both know or reveal fetishes you aren't sure about. Sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on -- for now. Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game for better sex. Use your imagination, and keep it sexy. Take it in turns and see where it leads you.

WHAT IS SEXY

Have her dress up
Pretending to be something you're not comes easily to some people. However, it has its benefits when done for fun. Stepping out of the role of being "yourself" can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently for better sex. Playing the role of someone else during sexual play is a very enjoyable way to give your partner some different sensations, and try things that you haven’t done before. Role playing is a great way to have better sex and to have fun with your partner in a light-hearted but sexy way. It is often the woman who does the dressing up simply because A) They enjoy it; and B) They have the resources of clothes, underwear and makeup -- but don't forget that you can play too..

so what r u thinking?

The key to better sex in this case is to keep her senses alert, but her body relaxed. This means a firm touch, coupled with some sensory feather-light caresses. Once you've relaxed her major muscles -- shoulders and back -- work your way down to her buttocks. Strokes can then start to wander near to, but not on, her inner thighs, butt crease and vagina. Don’t forget her hands and feet -- there are thousands of nerve endings in our hands and feet that are very sensitive to touch. If you have no idea what a good massage feels like or how to perform one, spend some time in "lesson time" with your partner and learn what you both like or just run your hands all over her body -- all over. Don’t skip to the hot spots or you’ll ruin the effect.